Where do Fights Come From?

"Where do wars and fights come from among you?" (James 4:1) Have you ever paused to wonder why fights happen? When I say fighting, yes, I could be talking about actual wars happening. I could also be referring to the battles we fight within our own country- political, social, and so on. I could be talking about the rifts that happen interdenominationally, or even within a single church. But I'm sure we all know that fighting happens a lot closer to home than that. How about the "disagreements" (er, arguments) that happen within families: among siblings, spouses, parents and teens, etc.? There is something almost thrilling about joining in a good argument, would you agree? I've gotten caught up in some of them myself. It's almost addicting to fight for that last word. But usually, whoever had the last word was the one who inflicted the most pain. And whenever that last word is followed by silence, you can be sure that it will take a lot of work to ...